Wanted to share a statement from my W to paint a picture of her mindset: I got up early Saturday morning at 6 am to exercise as Ive done our entire marriage. She has been sleeping on the couch the last 3 weeks. I was quiet, but she woke up.

During our talk the other night, she asked me to sleep on the couch on Fridays so she could sleep in bed and I would not wake her. I nicely pointed out that she can sleep in bed anytime she wants. Her response was "why would I want to be with someone who wont sleep on the couch so I can get more sleep since I am only getting 4 hours of sleep per night."

(She was referring to her working on her phd and work...and yes, she often gets 4 hours of sleep.)

M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues