You have a good friend that breaks up with his wife and you are friends with both of them. His wife stops by your house to drop off a book and asks you to dinner. Would you go? Surely in your mind you would be thinking "no I can't do that, my buddy might think I'm trying to move in on his W".
I understand your point, and, for example, have avoided including a friend's ex wife in golf outings so as not to upset him.
Maybe I'm too close to the trees to see the forest. Would it make any real difference if the scenario was that I had this woman over to my house almost every time my W was on a (frequent) business trip, with W's knowledge and encouragement, for various reasons the idea of a romantic relationship was ridiculous, and we would only be continuing these obviously platonic dinners?
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
