I believe in the back of our minds we are all seriously hoping out W notice. Because the reason were here is for them initially. My W noticed the weight loss and still will mention how good I am looking. The irony is that none if the men my W has cheated with are in shape. They all have big belly on them. Perhaps it's my W finding someone who won't make her seem so big. I know her weight has always bothered her.
At first I thought something was wrong with me, but I know now that W has issues that are outside if me. These guys are cheaters and lowlifes. Not bragging in myself, but I am nowhere near as bad as these guys. So once again the reality is that my W has deep issues tibhet over that has nothing to do with me.
And my guess is the same applies you and your W. Just keep making the changes for yourself. Trust me other women have been admiring my changes. So maybe may no longer be an option. But I highly doubt I will be alone.