Just asked for 48 hours to take a breather. I was honest that I was feeling that ol' codependent pull again, and some fear of him pulling the plug.
When I get that weird, nagging, terrible feeling in my stomach... time to step away, and focus on me. He was nice about, reassured me he wasn't pulling the plug, but agreed to step back for 48. He abided by the 72 hours last time.
Phoned into a meeting, got some support from friends. Eating lunch, then back to work. Listened to Melody Beattie yesterday for a long time.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson