You can't make sense out of crazy and/or irrational statements and behavior. If you try to do so, it will not only keep you spinning, but it will make you second guess yourself. The best thing to do is to step off the crazy train and allow it to continue on down the tracks to La La Land.
Our spouses, in their minds, think that time has stood still and we are going to be right where they left us. They do not realize that w/time, we all change and move forward, as well as our children are growing up and aren't the same age as they were when their parents checked out.
Keep moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
