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Well, you want to become a better version of yourself, so I'm not sure showing up late to exchanges is a step in the right direction.


LOL...true, I was just thinking about what a 180 for me would be since I am always punctual and hate being late.


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It seems like men often focus on the surface stuff when it comes to 180s. Gym, cologne, clothes. Those are an important step, but don't stop there.


I think I started with that because she told me I had gotten fat and wasn't physically attracted to me.

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Try out a new genre of music, take dance lessons, go see the art film you wouldn't normally see, go fishing if you're a city guy or head to the museums if you're a nature lover. Learn to cook, try a new cuisine, take an art class, shoot a gun.


I think a cooking class would be fun as I do like to cook even thought it is only formyself now. I did some research for stuff in my area and there is a place about 20 min away that offers cooking classes. There is actually 2 places. 1 is more of a BYOB, do some cooking, have some fun with adults. Like it would be a fun date night, not sure it is something that a single dude would roll to. They do offer classes for kids and parents though so that would be something fun for me and my D's

There is another place at Sur La Table that may be more appropriate. Not neccarily desgined for date night that I could check out it looks like the classes are on Saturdays for 2 to 2.5 hours.

I think trying different things is where I get hung up. I need to figure out a way to continue to get out of comfort zone. That is hard for me.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018