W has just informed me that she plans on taking a trip to the US in January and will *possibly* be meeting OM as a result.
She says she is prepared to be alone as a result.
Man, sorry to hear that. So how do you feel about that? What's your next step?
Take stock. I guess this is it. I've told her that there is no coming back from this. Same thing I told her a year ago.
I'm still mentally processing this at the minute. Luckily W is going to be house sitting for her mother this weekend, so I won't have to see her much.
Next steps: Talk to L Talk to accountant. Get individual counselling (still not done that).
It's too early for me to know exactly what is going to happen, but I guess getting the house in a state to sell will be necessary. She did talk about that last week, which was a change of position for her. Now I see why. Luckily there's not too much to do. Glad I didn't buy into this whole 'get a campervan' thing she wanted to, that would be more money I'd be out of pocket.
Then I guess we will need to sit down and talk.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
