The question is what if he does not reply? What is next? Lawyers is not an option at the moment as I am not sure if he has anything or not. Plus it might complicate things further and I honestly do not have cash to waste it on lawyers.


Should I talk to his mom. Although he cares for her but I don't think he is on great terms plus her health is not that great.

I don't know anyone at his office too. All his old friends were replaced.

The max I can get from here is get D through our court system. But to get proper custody, or finiancial I have to do that in the country he resides in ...at the moment I guess not feasible. And I know he will not do anything .

Today I received a wedding card invitation and it was in my maiden name without him... I guess people know we are not together no more although I never announced it.

I donor regret sending my message as I want to stir the pot to crest some movement at the moment in any direction.


M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated