Any Advice 2

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25, he is in Georgia and we live in Kentucky.

Here is what she would say if asked about the problems in the marriage - I went thru a phase where i was drinking a lot. Thru IC i later found it was self medication for PTSD from work.( LAw Enforcement) I have not taken a drink in 92 days, since the day she told me it was an issue

I emotionally neglected her. While drinking, i never showed any loving mannerisms, IE kissing her, hugging her, and lacking in the sex department. She says all of this led her to emotional disconnect. She connected with OM one night while feeling bad about our R and began an emotional affair. She later says she eventually felt like she fell in love with him

I made her mad when i told her it was not a real relationship because it was all over the phone, I begged and pleaded, and tried to reason. I got emotional towards her, telling her how i felt and how much i loved her. she felt it was put and fake.

I still cant understand the dynamics of her A or how it has lasted with very minimal physical contact.