I couldn't agree more with this. It is truly about getting that clarity for yourself, and I believe this is what creates the LBS in a position of strength.
Their decisions then aren't out of revenge, vindictiveness, clingyness, or desperation. It is out of crystal clear clarity.
This is exactly what I am trying to approach over the next year. I want to be able to let go of fears of what life has in store for me without W.