Thanks, Blu. It means a lot that you gave such a thorough response.

I can plan get togethers, but we live 4 hours away. My sister will not want my wife around, my BIL would likely not want to hang around me, etc. I guess my wife and BIL could go hang out together. 😂

I am talking to my sister tomorrow. I will let everyone know how it goes.

Sometimes I have I think it would be nice to just divorce my wife and be done with it. Of course, then I think of how aweful that scenario would be for our kids.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues