Update: All 4 children are back to school. Routine is back on and it helps!
I did not hear from my doctor so health is good. I am feeling good!
as for ex-h, interesting phone call.. made me shake my head once again.. I had a job offer. a opportunity to go Corporate. I turned it down with disappointment. Timing was wrong. I sacrificed it for my children. This is where the feud between me and D17 came from. She got angry wit me and got her father involved. He came after me without knowing what the argument was about. Once I have shared the situation with him, he felt remorseful..
2 weeks later, he calls me to talk about it some more. Tells me not to worry from his end, he would not cut me off from support. He advised me to sell the house NOW and get an apartment for the winter. This way, I would be ready without having to think about this sell. Told me to sell it for half of what it is worth.( He gave me numbers. I did not tell him it doubled since his departure. lol ). (I invested a lot and in the right places.) His reason for the call was apparently to put my mind at ease. Actually, he was fishing information and it seemed to me he wants to feel needed somehow. What went through my head after the call? Well first: Control freak!! lol second: Where am I suppose to store my belongings if I sell the house now? Why move twice? Why on earth would I give the house away? Now, he has 2 things in mind: moving also or go after D14. Lets keep my eyes open. Both scenarios are a possibility.
This was last month. More info came in. He' s planning to move.. I don' t know where or when.. He is probably waiting on me ..
