Thanks for the comments. I really did think things were going better. My 180s were spending more time as a family, planning and executing family trips (races as an example), picking up new hobbies, etc. I believe I have improved myself.
I will talk to my sister at lunch tomorrow, but I think she figured things out on her own.
It is hard to explain just how intertwined our kids and their cousins are. They love going out on the lake together...my BIL is the boat and property owner.
I do believe that my wife will divorce without a second thought. I was not concerned about this until I talked with her last night. The sinking feeling while talking was unbearable...
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues