So i learned today that OM is sneaking up to spend a week here during fall break. My W and kids will be out of school for that week. No idea what she has planned other thatn the obvious. She originally planned on taking the kids down there for the week but i found out a month ago and said hell no.
So how should i handle this?
Can you clarify the geography here? He's "sneaking up" meaning he is south of you - and she was going to take the kids south to see him - or is there something else south, like a beach or a lake or what?
Can YOU take off that week and go somewhere as a family? It's a holiday of sorts?
And can you remind me what SHE would have said about the marital problems, that you believe have some validity?
Affairs are always wrong but they are not all alike.
I have seen marriages recover after affairs. It does happen.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
