Well I think I have started to do that by not calling her, texting her, giving her space etc. I think that is the opposite of my general nice guy personality so I think that is a start.
I used to never buy clothes or anything for myself. That has recently changed with buying new threads, cologne, I also dyed my 44 yr old gry hair and am in the process of growing it out on top. I always wore the same hair cut 8 on top 2 on the sides. That I think would also be unpredictable Because again I never did anything for myself.
I guess another way would be arrive late to exchanges, I am always prompt and on time. Maybe start to leave situations early as well. Maybe I miss a weekend of my D's soccer games because I am going out of town or miss a practice because I got a HH to go to. That would be totally not normal for me because I love watching my d's play sports.
Continue to ACT like I don't give a [censored] and try to pay her as little attention as possible. I started not sitting by her at soccer games and practices, by doing this I have found that she comes over to talk to me.
Don't cave into her wishes or requests. Be more aloof, more difficult, like I told her this weekend I wasn't going to be involved with her cell phone any more because it is my personal boundary or why couldn't maintenance fix her fire alarm in her apartment. Continue with stuff like that.
