I believe you are right in thinking that your move out will be beneficial to you and S considering what is going on with your H at work. You really don't need that type of worry on top of everything else.
I would be suprised if your H is in 'love' with anyone else! Why would he feel the need to have a porn account (yuk!) if he was! It really sounds like his world is starting to crash around him and to top it all you and S will be moving out soon and that familiar comfort blanket of family will be gone.
I'm so sorry you are having to hear all this about him second hand Fight but I think you are very strong to be able to let it just roll off your back. Oh and the water park sounded like it was a scream!!!
(((Fight)))
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')
