Originally Posted By: exquisitetobe
From all men i have encounter since bomb, i beleive the only possibility of a match for me would be another lbs who has not turned to self medication..
Well - that counts me out I suppose - I do have a fondness for a nice bottle of wine and occasionally am too fond of beer - I'm unsupervised after-all laugh

It's good to see you posting again exquisite. Hopefully your health concerns are behind you now and you've gotten the kids and school stuff all sorted out which was perhaps complex for you if I recall your prior posts.

Dating as a mature person certainly seems to be a lot more complex than when you are younger especially when your trust has been shattered. Even just determining if someone is "available" is pretty tricky. It took me 4 months to find out that the lady at my flower shop was single (she turned me down). If you add on to that my complete inability to guess a lady's age it becomes more complex. Mid-late 50s I can usually guess but between 25 and 45 I'm completely at a loss.

I'm not sure about dating another LBS - a couple of them that I've talked to seem to be having a lot of trust issues even years later. My own daughter mentioned to me last week when I was visiting her that she felt that I was "still pretty messed up" which is probably true.


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