JMSTL thread-Part 5-What a beautiful GAL

[Jmstl]

Well Friday was another night of her trying to gaslight me, and make it seem like I was the one who was wrong and crazy, for not 'communicating' about the drop off time. I mentioned that I had told her 3 times through written communication what time the drop off was. She insisted she was confused and even sometimes sat around waiting, and wanted an earlier time.

She brought up how it was wrong of me to call her out for not being there to receive the kids, as it was 'her time' and she could do what she wanted. I pointed out that they were MY children, not her parent's children, and that I should get a chance to keep them longer if she won't be there. She said if my parents were there in my stead, she wouldn't bat an eye. I pointed out that once again she was deflecting off the issue, and she got upset.

She said she did not want me going on the family trip that was planned for next year. I mentioned that I thought she and I would be in a better place in 10 months, and she responded "I'm not too sure about that". Then she mentioned her sister feeling awkward about it (I just talked to her sister, as I have done several times, and she insisted that she still wanted me to go and it wasn't a problem).

She lies to me about what should be small, minor things. I cannot trust anything that she says.

She said she didn't want put things like holiday and vacation schedules through the court. I told her it was for my protection, in case she gets nasty. She said she NEVER would get nasty. She has, she just does not accept it, and tries to reason her way out of it.

I was there almost 30 minutes. I finally looked at her and said, I understand where you are coming from. Try looking at everything from my perspective, and you will see why I am taking the actions that I am.

I told her I had somewhere I had to be soon. She threw her hands up, said whatever, then walked away.

Saturday, she texted and wanted to drop the kids off four hours early.

So last Sunday she wasn't home. This Sunday she drops them off early (I agreed to 2 hours early. More kid time, but she doesn't get everything she wants).

Pretty sure she was with OM#1 or #2. I don't think OM#3 is in town right now (I could be wrong though).

She did post pictures of my kids at our 'friends' house, (The one who lied and backstabbed me). That made me pretty upset.

Other than that, I barely thought of her at all.

I went to the Casino Friday, A festival and a hockey game Sat, and worked on the car and programming on Sunday.

Really good weekend overall