Picking up her mess...

[marina7]

Good morning 25years,

And Get a Lawyer Now, telling them that your w took all the money. You'll need a retainer (probably on a CC if need be)

To respond yes I have put retainer in CC unfortunately we live in Illinois in July of this year they changed child support law when 2 parent's have 50/50 the other parent the kid's go to school in only gets $130 so am honestly not focusing on how much I'll get my focus is to get my son back. I also have this attitude that is you as a parent know your kids eat,need cloths do school activity I shouldn't beg you for anything I guess that's the pride in me.


I understand what your saying about listening I have I listen and acknowledge, but I guess due to W saying I never loved you the last 10 years was lies I guess it's in my head that W never loved me. I mean she made sure she let me every chance she had this was in the beginning. What I said when she said I love you so much my reply was I wish you believed that yourself,I guess I needed to make sure it wasn't just saying ILY but during that W you paused am thinking waiting for me to say ily more. But I didn't so should I tell W ILY W knows I say to her "everything in this world could be fix" W knows I love my family, but I honestly have to say W might not think I don't Love her anymore due to everything.

So let me tell you what happen during friend's house we had bbq who is also W bf she loves both of us and is our kids godmother. We where talking she was sad because she notice W changes as she explain she feels replace because W has new friends. W hasn't seen her in over 3 month's W text and ask what was she doing she explain in her kids flag football W ask can I go over friend said Yes. W showed up friend said she was quite very quiete and head down. Our friend is not a grey person is either black or white and speaks the truth no filter. So W said do you think am doing the right thing friend said are you asking me or telling me. Because if your even questioning that thought then you know the answer. W proceed to say how do I even begin to try to fix it, friend said only you know that answer but you better hurry up because you have an amazing partner who has always been there supported you physically,mentally who had your back and look at her she is taking care of all 3 kids without even asking for help from anyone. Friend said her head was down while tears running down.

I have to say I needed to hear this I ask God for a sign just like all of us here, I been ready to walk away instead of standing. Hearing our friend/kids godmother say keep doing what your doing W is realizing what she lost and yes get s9 this is maybe what W needs but dont question your decision you are doing an amazing job. I have to say I needed this so am back on the horse and not giving up. Because like everyone one around us say I know W is my soulmate we have been a great Team together, together we could conquer the world, if this is going make us even better after this then I'll do it. I love her and my kids.