Update to the update...my wife started a conversation with me asking if I am snooping around her accounts. I told her no, and that is the honest truth.
Once again, my wife slipped up and revealed to my BIL that I know about them. She did this to warn him, thinking that I had already told my sister everything. My W told me that my BIL noticed my sister acting strange around him. My guess is that my sister had a hunch something was going on and maybe even tried to access my wifes facebook account...who knows.
My wife used this as an opportunity to tell me she will never love me again and that our marriage is just a means to raise our awesome kids. She was more than willing to divorce me if I am not okay with this.
Summary: cats out of the bag due to my wife slipping up again. Wife still only wants to be roommates. Hard for me to GAL since I need to be there more than ever for the kids since wife is doing grad school and getting less than 4 hours of sleep every night.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues