Count on ups and downs (IV)

[WillDo]

I find it strange where my W refers to the fact that she is having a MLC.

Yesterday, we were with friends. She talked about her interest to quit work since she was having an MLC and even she might do new things without me. I noticed that I had been the one who has built up a thick skin to what she has been saying. I certainly didn't say anything and the couple who we were with didn't comment. It is the couple's second marriage and are dealing with a special needs child. Amongst the things we complain about my W said, she said we should be grateful.

Nevertheless, she was grateful towards me today and sent a message asking me not to do as I wish.

You know what I will write about positive aspects from now on rather than triggers that bring me down. At least ways to reformat the trigger.

That is the change I am doing. Looking after myself.