I have no doubt you can handle your children and whatever the process you are going to enter, you are very strong.

I truly believe that you need to extract yourself from that mess for your own sanity. You will never be the same as the one you were before but with time you will notice that you will become stronger and wiser. Surround yourself with a good network of friends and let them help you. The next few months are going to be a roller coaster again, keep your eyes on what are your main goals and if the communication with your H is becoming tense, just let your attorney handling the communication. Be ready for him to become very nasty if you don't bend/agree, he is used to have it his way...

I believe in you.

Last edited by Cadet; 09/24/17 10:30 AM. Reason: start a new thread message

Me 52+ WH 57+
Married 20 +
Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)