Thanks Blu, I really appreciate it!! I do feel really good, I do miss my W and family but I understand my W didn't feel the same way and I have accepted it. I don't understand why, I suppose I never will but I do know that it all doesn't have to do with me.
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When you say you don't know how long to wait, what does that mean?
I guess how long you generally wait for them to notice your changes? I suppose that there is not a finite answer and it is a personal descion but is there any general timeline that these sitch's follow? You are right either way I would be doing the same work. I know mine is very early on and I guess in reality I shouldn't even worry about it. I already feel as though I am her best option, (she never gave me a reason she wanted to leave in the first place) and I have got my confidence back so I guess that is why I feel impatient. I love my W don't get me wrong but I am battling the feelings of you don't deserve me, I am the best option vs waiting for an opportunity to put my family back together. Does that make sense???
I do believe my W is a WAW and in a MLC. I don't think there is a specific OM however I do believe she is out flirting, maybe has been on a date, talked to guys at bars etc. I know she is enjoying her apartment, alone time and not having our children full time.
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I get the sense your W is a WAW and not a WW. That perhaps could take longer or be more challenging.
I do think this is my W....any thoughts or strategies on how to handle?
