This morning I send her a text saying something like "I wake up thinking of you." A tinny "chasing" to see what happens. And... she didn't answer at all!! It seems that W's previous conversation was a trap.
Yes, we call it temp checks. That's when she will check your emotional temperature to see how much you are still attached to the relationship. As soon as she sees she can yank on the rope and you jump at the chance to be with her......she immediately loses interest. Not that she really was really thinking of going back, but something made her want to check to see if you were "talking" to some chick. Nex time, don't be so quick to answer her nosy questions, and try to be a bit vague. Don't make up stuff, but you can sound a little more mysterious. do you know what I mean?
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This morning I send her a text saying something like "I wake up thinking of you." A tinny "chasing" to see what happens. And... she didn't answer at all!! It seems that W's previous conversation was a trap.
Exactly! Currently, you cannot afford to tiny chases. Although it may have worked before your dating years, it only works against you with a WW. I hope you will remember this throughout this ordeal. No pursuit.......period.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
