Help needed from Far-east.

[25yearsmlc]

PS

If you worry that saying "W, I need you to let me finish" is telling her what to do (perhaps over thinking a bit, but anyhow...)

then modify it.

Say instead, that you "need to be heard" or "need to finish" the thought.

I know some of this ^ is semantics

but clarity is crucially important at this time. Keep the focus on your own behavior b/c it helps to know this for yourself anyhow.



Getting clarity on our ends is vital b/c we sure won't get any from them for a long time, if ever. But that is another topic...