Alcoholism... arrgggg... i have ZERO tolerance for it.. no pitty, no sensitivity, no compassion for what brought them to it, ZERO!!!!!!!
2 years ago, a young couple with 3 kids moved next door. Very nice people, very nice children. Her father ( who has been divorced for 9 years ) had a stroke. They took him in. I soon noticed that this family was not a close family. The lady was often secluded. Her husband was quite the drinker and so was her father. No fighting, at least, not to my knowledge. Only a divided family.
This summer, i suspected a separation. Well, i was right. The husband is in rehab for DRUGS AND ALCOHOL abuse. Her father was not around anymore and she is left with 3 children, a mortgage, not much support around.. breaks my heart and angers me. This past friday, her father re-appear but not to help her with the children or the chores of owning a house, instead, he sat outside with his music and his beer.. Saturday, round 2 but this time, he talkes to me and ask if he could come over for a cigarette. He shares with me bits and pieces of what she is stuggleing with and makes it heard that he will pay for everything. She will be moving down the street next week. He add that he will not be living with her forever and i have a very nice house wich is why he wanted to come over... ????? he asked why i was alone, was i a lesbian? ??????
Wtf is wrong with these guys??? And to think that woman fall for these assh:le.. He made it really clear that he is a great catch with alot of money and he loves his life and freedom... Really??
My thoughts: if you are this happy, why are you drinking your life away and why are you sitting here alone?? You would be a great catch if you would ACTUALLY HELP your daughter with her struggles, her house chores, her children .... not add to her problems ....
As he was telling me all this, i could visualized my ex-h telling the same kind of stories to other woman and i can' t beleive they fall for this....
Yes, i carry alot of anger. I wish these people would SEE THEMSELVES for who they really are!!!!!!!
