Any Advice 2

[gw5263]

So, i thought long last night about a GAL plan. Before the A, I really didnt have one, because of my work schedule. I work nights, and slept all day, even my days off. I spent the nights either fooling around outside, or watching TV.
So, for my GAL,
Get in shape
Fish more
Spend time with old friends
Go see a live band - I used to love this
Ride my bike more- Mountain bike
Focus on spending time with the kids doing quality activities, maybe some over night trips to places we always wanted to go around our area
Work on me, work on me, work on me.

I could use some help in the detachment process - how to begin?

Not that it matters, but W asked me a question a while back - If i were the one in an A after issues in the M, could i just leave it and workk on us as easily as i say i would. The answer from me was a resounding yes. She also said that at times she views my changes and my feelings for her as genuine, other times it seems put on. I have to reinforce the genuine, thru my actions. Detachment and self improvement. Show her i am definatley the better choice. Any input or criticism is greatly appreciated at this stage. Im trying to regain level flight and climb, not spiral and crash and burn, as i was. thank you all for being here and listening to my crazy ass. Especially thankful to 25 for the ass whooping!!!! reality check that was well earned, i must say.