what are your 180's? They are to undermine her negative images of you - if there is any validity.
Say, for instance, that she complained you are "always late." So you become "MR PUNCTUAL" and you arrive on time or early, for everything.
So you just negated some of her "negative data" about you. That may confuse her or she will start to doubt her negative views. I'm sure there are deeper issues but you get the point.
Working on those, (that YOU want to work on) will make you a better man, regardless.
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