[quote=joejoe1]25,

I'm not try to be inflammatory. If any body ever feels that way let me know.

( I think I just did). We are all in pain, to be sure. But women have A's for more varied reasons.


My W told ne the other day, that she had no respect for me and that what allowed her to cheat on me.


I'm sorry your w said that to you. IF that is truly how she feels, then you have work to do & decisions to make.

All affairs are wrong, yes. But they are not all alike. So the advice is not always the same.

Simply declaring that you "won't accept disrespect" is not an enforceable boundary in and of itself. It is not an action or behavior; it's just a sentence.

I'll look at your thread and try to support you in your situation.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change