How do I get things right?

[Lovelyp]

Thanks 25 for taking time to read and respond.
He tried to talk to me and I agreed. H said," I don't understand why you worry if I talk to other ladies when you had s*x with another man. You are being selfish".

I told him it was exactly this kind of talk that led to my depression and things got out of hand. I told him that it is up to him to back his words with actions when he says he wants to work out on marriage. If he still wants to behave out of anger and try to punish me I will leave and file for D. I told him he has to also meet my needs and shldnt not make excuses.

I told him that I don't care about what he says but I'm looking for his actions and from that decide whether to stay or D.

He then kept quiet, after an hour he asked me to tell him my needs that he is not meeting. I told him and he quietly listened.

We had an amazing night. He was trying to implement some things I said. Will see hownit goes today but so far so good. I have a journal where I listed my needs