And this is why I suggested not destroying yiur evidence. I am filing for a divorce even though I still wish my W would get her head right. But at the end if the day, I realize when someone is out to get me. And that has consequences that gies outside your MR that will effect you for years. So you should protect yourself.
Not sure if you should use BAR, but as long as OM is in your W ear coming up with ideas to get you. Then your W is a threat. I have seem W set their H up to be arrested, attacked or even killed. Due to some lowlife in their ear. So yes tibhave every reason to want to keep a close eye on your W.
Trust, I tried DB'ING and still technically doing so. But my life trumps a MR to a damaged woman. And that is when I seriously knew it was time to detach. Now my W wants to act friendly again and I will stay detached. And in my sitch, OM isn't even helping her plot that I know of. You don't have to use your proof, but please don't toss it an attempt to be the bigger person. WW will make you pay for that act of kindness. She already to make uiha summertime parent.
Go consult a lawyer about options in regards to your children. In TN, no parent can move 50 miles away from the other parent. Which prevents one parent from making it difficult for the other parent to see the child.
