I have read your sitch and it horrifies me what your H did to you and your kids. I have given the schedule of dance to my H. I typed it out and sent it to him. Yes I guess I just need to let it go. No sense in arguing about it. Because he won't listen. He will just take it as me bitching and arguiing. And she helps in some classes as well on saturday so she can't really miss it. And yes detaching is getting better. Because last night I was trying to fall asleep and I was angry and I refused to let him take away any more peace from my mind. And I read for a bit and then fell asleep. And yes the time I get with my kids. Driving and spending time with them is fantastic. So you are right. His loss not mine. Thank you so much for your advice and help. It is so appreciated.
