My GAL today was skydiving. It was awesome. Free falling to the Earth was a great escape.
I got home and W seemed pissed. I felt so good I kept on smiling. She asked why keep smiling at me. It's creepy. I just looked at her and kept on smiling. She did make some chicken adobo. It was off the chain.
Me and holding had our date reschedule until tomorrow.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
My GAL today was skydiving. It was awesome. Free falling to the Earth was a great escape. I went skydiving for my 50th and did it again later. I wish I had done the airborne course I was FINALLY selected for back in the day. But turns out they don't let pregnant lawyers do it. To be fair, once I knew d20 was coming, it did lack a certain appeal.
But I'll skydive again for sure. Even though it is an AWESOME experience, I think the GAL you will most benefit from is when you meet new people or do a new activity b/c it's a more lasting distraction.
At some point, the "filler distractions" will actually be fulfilling.
You are creating a new life that your w may, or may not wish to be a part of.
I got home and W seemed pissed. I felt so good I kept on smiling. She asked why keep smiling at me. It's creepy.
don't get over the top or look forced. You can say you "just had an amazing experience" and leave it at that.
Me and holding had our date reschedule until tomorrow.
Good on you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
what are your 180's? They are to undermine her negative images of you - if there is any validity.
Say, for instance, that she complained you are "always late." So you become "MR PUNCTUAL" and you arrive on time or early, for everything.
So you just negated some of her "negative data" about you. That may confuse her or she will start to doubt her negative views. I'm sure there are deeper issues but you get the point.
Working on those, (that YOU want to work on) will make you a better man, regardless.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Joe are you active duty? If so, see a JAG Lawyer b/c it's free and knowledge is power.
No, I would not tell your w. It's not a trump card to throw in her face, it's for Your peace of mind.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
