wow. just WOW. so you think OM instigated the contact from the woman from 12 years ago? or eew did because she now knows these people through OM?
That is just ... bizarre!
Glad you changed your settings. Good move, I think.
So ... I'm going to just say it, and hope you understand I'm saying this gently and with loving kindness, because you are my friend and if friends can't be honest then who can?
My prayer for you mon ami is that you find a way to extricate yourself from being in the middle, advocating for what you think the relationship should be with the girls and eew. Eew fired you from that job. What she does or does not choose to do with the girls is on her and up to her. Yes, you are their dad, and a superb dad at that, but now that you've had your say it's best to leave the laptop closed. Do you know what I mean here? Of course the girls deserve more. Everyone deserves more. Sadly MLC has taught me this about life: we do not get what we deserve.
Love the girls, be the amazing father you are to them. Keep on giving them reasons to believe that there are good men out there.
You don't need to run interference with eew and the girls unless the girls explicitly ask you too. This is just my opinion. I could be wrong. I don't want to hurt your feelings or upset you. I'm simply saying gently to drop the rope on this one, so you can focus on what's truly important: you and the girls and your lives post D xoxoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
