How do I treat him when he us angry but wants to talk to me?



Meaning, how to react when he's lashing out at you?

It really does not matter that he "wants to talk" to you, if he's unkind or rude.

You react to his Actions/behaviors,

not what you hope his intention is, or what he says he wants.

By way of analogy, your h might say he "wants to connect with you more deeply."

But oops, he thinks humiliating you in public is the correct way to do so.

Do you think you should stick around for more "connecting",

or should you set a boundary about how you'll be treated,

and walk away when the boundary is crossed?

When evaluating what you want in your m, try to see your h as he is, not his potential as a h.

Make sense?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change