GW,
The first you set is with your son. Her bringing your son into this is very unhealthy. Tell he to keep you son out of this period. Just tell her just like that. Keep our son out of this situation. Its very unhealthy and disrespectful to be bringing him into this like you have.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.