really a lot depends on what is shared by your SILs.
They mean well, I presume. But the texts reveal - what?
And if you had conversations, I can tell you that your SIL will try to be discreet but they will want to help and they WILL say something.
What are the texts like?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
