LRT is my 180

[AvgGuy]

Well it appears W is now looking into my cell phone records and texted SIL (her sister) inquiring what we've been discussing about her. So I'll stop texting SIL immediately (actually both SILs to be safe). Fyi, I trust both to keep confidentiality, and if W and I recover, both should get a lot of credit for support, advice, prayers, etc. It is true, however, that our discussions have been all over the place as far as covering many aspects of the past goings on, current happenings (and frustrations) as well as various future possibilities and outcomes.

They both know my heart and that I desire deep down to save the M, but I know I probably shouldn't try to defend myself with that kind of language if/when W turns her aim toward me.

Here's some irony: I was the one doing this type of snooping back in May when I sniffed out the A.

Any words of advice?

Should I view this as a positive even tho W is prob pissed off seeing all the text records? (W knows I've had some contact, but not the extent nor the content.)