I know how you feel. If you could just speak to H, it would be better. If he heard my voice, heard how calm I was being, how I was showing that I cared about him and was concerned, he would finally get it. WRONG.......H told me that it pushed him further away when I did that. He had to figure it out on his H. Taught me some patience that's for sure.
I know that when I did try to speak to H and ask him things he would shut down so fast. It didn't matter what I said, or how I said it......he just didn't want to talk about it at all.
I remember someone on here telling me if I was having those moments where I wanted to try and connect with H, post on here instead. I know it isn't what we really want to do, but it is for the best.
