The D word once in 28 months, wow. I would be lost as well. I was finding hope in my wife not saying that as well. She has only said it once. Today she said t" if we stay together. That's the first time I heard that. You usually says shes done. Did you WW ever say "if we stay together?".
That's is a hard place your were in. And you are doing well now. I hope inhave your strength by the end results of my Sitch.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
