GW.....I think u take the advice from Sandi/25 and roll with it. I am not in your sitch but it doesn't sound like there is much you can do other than continue to work on yourself. I found comfort in reading up on other people's sitch's that were similiar to mine. LH is like my mentor on this board and his sitch I have found comfort in although I don't think him and his W ever separated. He has young kids sounds like his W and mine experienced the same type of feelings.
I would suggest you read up...find other people that dealt with in-house sep, try to draw strength from their experiences and how they handled. TBH...it has helped me get to where I am now. I still draw comfort in it to this day. Just know that many people have gone through and are going through what you are experiencing.
Stay stong my friend!
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