She needs to see that you are done. You have to figure out how to start that process. Do you still wear your wedding ring. Take it off. Are there pictures of you and her up? Take them down. She must start to see you moving on. How can you get those thoughts going. You having been dealing with your Sitch longer than mines. I hate the move out idea, so pls don't do that. Do you watch the kids more than her? What do you do that affect her.
You mentioned you moved back in to help her, because she coukdnt afford it own her own. Do you buy groceries? What bill could you stop paying that wont affect your kids and yourself?
I'm just trying to get your thought process going. Sometimes its the things you never thought of doing that work.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.