IMO...they filed after a long journey. If you file too soon and you have not given her time to take in your changes, etc. I don't think it will work. Her emtions are still high etc. Maybe in the case of an active A their could be a difference. I think most people have waited, gave the sitch some time, then made the call.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018