You have been leaving out a lot to this story. "You moved out and moved back in to help her with bills". Why did you move out? And was you WW having an A before you moved or moved back in?
Something is not mAking since to me in this Sitch. You don't want to move her clothes out the bedroom. Why? You had info on OM and asked if you should turn him in? Now you have backed off of that.
I don't think you have had enough of her disrespect. You will oneday. I hope you take your respect back soon. Until you get fed up and demand respect for yourself, you will stay in limbo.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.