MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[SBJ]

LAJar, I can only offer support to you. I don't know what or how to broach the subject with your H. My BD was 7/2016 so I am about a year ahead of you on this journey, but I promise that it does get easier as you find the "YOU" that has been put on the back burner for the last many years.

Stand for as long as you can and then lean on others when you need to. You are in the right place for support from people who do indeed know what you are going through. They can help deal with the batchitcraziness that our MLC'ers show.

I don't know your entire background, but I will read through it and keep you and your family in my prayers. Enjoy your trip.