I think your wife is taking advantage of you. She wants out so she must make do with her money. The day she left you she lost the right to ask for you to bail her out financially. Other than what you already contribute you shldnt do anything more.even if she wants groceries just or cash just politely tell her you don't have. She has to learn to manage her expenses


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC