Thanks Blu. This is a lot to digest and I will re-read it a few more times when I'm not so busy at work. But just wanted to say thanks for taking the time to reply.
I'm heading to Atlantic City on Sunday for some serious GAL. The plan is to hang at the bar, watch football, take naps at the pool, play some poker, grab a late night dinner at the sushi bar, catch up on sleep, and probably hit the spa. Not going with anyone, which is a bit of a drag, but I could use the quiet time, plus I'm sure I'll start up some conversations with people while I'm there. And I'll have the MNG book with me
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14