Finally, as if to remind me what I am "missing": I used to ask the W to trim the hair on my neck with clippers. It was like pulling teeth. She would make every excuse not to. She would do everything else instead, then when it finally happened she would complain. This was a 2 minute operation BTW. So a few days ago she said she would help me with it this weekend, instead of me paying someone. Didn't happen, no big deal. I ask about it tonight, she says OK. Of course she stays with both kids at bedtime until late, doesn't mention it and crawls into bed. Just funny at this point, I'm not going to say anything. I know, this is bad DB, I just can't stand wasting $$.
Oh boy. OK, so here's something your W clearly does not like to do, and do you blame her? Do you ask her to trim your fingernails and nose hair too? But you basically made her do it. And now you're having marital problems, but.... you're STILL trying to make her do it? WHY???? Go buy yourself a hand mirror. Put shaving cream on your neck up to your hair line. Turn your back to the sink. Hold up the hand mirror and look at your reflection in the main mirror and shave your own freakin' neck. It takes a little practice to get the hang of it because your hand is moving the opposite of the reflection you're looking at, but it can be done. Quit depending on your W for stuff like this!
