Boston Dad in Need of Help Part 3

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Something I hear the vets say often is the WAS has their own emotional turmoil, which they hide away from everyone and only let out in private.

My STBXW did the same thing with hiding her emotions. If they ever do come out at some point, the best thing to do is validate and not read any more into it.

So what if she gets off too easy? I understand you're angry, but the world will find its own way to judge her, regardless of you. Not to be insensitive, it's just that I'm not sure shining a spotlight on her will do any good, especially since your S is 7.