I have been thinking about your situation. It seems as if both of you are unhappy but there is no cataclysmic cause or catalyst for change--like an AP or a D filing. If the old M is dead, then how to precipitate change/rebuilding of a new one without a catalyst?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
